It's been a crazy few weeks for the Schusted household! I'll start back almost a month ago...
Pat and I enjoyed a wonderful time in Ixtapa. It was our sixth time there and we were fortunate to have my parents and six neighbor friends there with us for three of the seven days. Once again, Pat got to deep sea fish with my Dad and Santos. They had a successful day on the water and both caught a lot of fish. We had a fun time at the Emporio Pool with our neighbor friends. We are all so busy with our families, that it was nice to get quality time together. We spent the last four days of our vacation lounging around by the pool, taking in loads of sunshine and relaxing. The weather was perfect the entire week and we had countless delicious meals, as usual.
The boys did quite well while we were gone. Cole came to pick us up at the airport with Grandpa Denny. He was so excited. Once he saw us and we left the airport, all of his emotions from the past week came rushing out. He cried, got angry and wanted "The Penguin Game". Cole was really out of sorts and it was pretty hard on us. We stopped at Target to look for the game; not having any idea what it was, a board game, a Nintendo game, a book, a movie?!? Even with the help of a Target employee, we could not locate the game. Cole was really mad. Pat had to carry him out of the store kicking and screaming. Luckily, once we picked up Connor and stopped to get ice cream, Cole settled down and life returned to normal. We've come to expect this from Cole. He does an amazing job while we're gone, but when we get home, he wants us to know it was not easy for him.
Pat was able to search around the internet and find The Penguin Game. We ordered it from Amazon and had it delivered the next day, to Cole's surprise. He was thrilled and thankfully, the episode on the way home from the airport was all the rough behavior he had after we got home.
We came home to incredible spring weather. As you all know, Mother Nature has blessed us this spring. Cole has been able to spend a lot of time outside, doing the things he loves most: riding the tractor, using the tiller, raking, riding his bike, etc. We've had so much fun with him and his mood has been really upbeat.
The thing Cole has been most excited about is our new boat. We traded in the 16' Alumacraft in March and got a 20' Crestliner. Cole has been sitting in it while it has been parked in our garage. He's claimed his spot in the passenger side comfy captains chair. He loves to open and close the windshield and look in all the compartments. When he saw the motor, he told Pat, "Daddy the motor is HUGE!". As soon as the ice went out on Coon Lake we were there. Cole was beyond excited. He was moving his hands and the smile on his face went from ear to ear. I let him sit in the big chair and he loved it. We went really fast and he couldn't get enough of it. Needless to say, we've been out on the boat at least four times since, in fact, he and Pat are taking Tim, Max and Zack on a ride as I write this! We are so glad to have this boat. We spent a lot of time boating and letting the boys swim at the lake. Our old boat didn't have enough room for us to move around and now we have plenty of space and a big motor to push us around the lake. Soon it will be time for tube rides!
Shortly after we got back from vacation, Cole went to his cousin Max's birthday party. It was at Pump It Up with about 15 other kids. We were not sure how Cole would react to this, but we tried it anyway. It went so well. We got there after Cole's swim lesson, so we missed some of the play time. At first, Cole was unhappy about this, but we asked the staff to open the play area and Cole was able to spend some time jumping around. Soon he joined the big group for cake and the birthday song. It was so fun to see him get excited and mingling with the kids. He sat amongst them like any other child and sang the birthday song. A few years ago we would not have attempted this, so to see it be successful was a proud moment for us.
On Easter morning, the bunny threw us a curve ball. Connor fell off a plastic table as he was getting off our trampoline. He broke two bones in his arm. It took me a few minutes to realize what happened and when it did, chaos broke loose. Pat had to run to get Cole and I immediately packed up Connor and brought him to the ER. My Dad met me there and stayed until Pat arrived. Poor Connor did a number on his arm. He broke both the radius and ulna and he broke them bad. He was put under at the ER so the doctor could reset his bones. He was SO brave. We went to the specialist on Monday and his initial thought was that even though the bone was attached "by a thread", it would heal together and be strong enough for a full recovery. He left Connor in a splint/temporary cast for a week and had us come back in this Monday. Connor and I went in and they put a permanent cast on. After that, they did another xray and determined the bones were not lining up properly.
Unfortunately Connor would need surgery the following day. So yesterday we took him to Mercy Hospital for surgery. Dr Pittman put made an incision and put two pins into Connor's bone to hold them in place. Connor did really well. He was scared and crying when he woke up from the surgery, but slowly the medications wore off and he was more like his old self. He has been taking pain medication and slowly things are getting better. We go back to see Dr Pittman on Monday and hope things still look good. If all looks good on Monday, the plan is to put the permanent cast on the following week. It has been an eventful 10 days for our family. Luckily Cole was at the respite house from Sat - Wed, so we were able to care for Connor without any interruptions. It's funny how things work out sometimes.
There is so much more I could write about and I wish I wasn't so far behind on my blog. Sometimes life just gets in the way. I did get an email this week from a woman I've never met. She has been following my blog and asked for insight on a few things regarding her Autistic son. It was so nice to hear from her and more importantly to share our experience and hopefully have a positive impact on their journey.
HAPPY SPRING EVERYONE!
