My last post was a month ago already. "Update blog" has been on my to-do list for weeks now. You know how this time of year is, way to much to do with not nearly enough time. So we prioritize and use our time wisely. And frankly, I can honestly say I have no guilt when things wait for tomorrow. I check off plenty each day on my to-do list and that is good enough for me.
Cole has been doing awesome. For the most part, we've had a few really good weeks with him. He seems to be past the tough fall/winter transition and is now elated that he can plow snow with our tractor. Cole loves Christmas and this year he did an awesome job decorating the tree. He pretty much did it himself. He even brought a chair over so he could place ornaments on the top part of the tree. He was so proud, as were we.
Cole is also doing great at swimming. After three years of private lessons at Foss, he is starting to catch on. He has come so far. Not long ago, half of the lesson was spent trying to get Cole to keep his goggles on for more than a minute and getting him used to putting his face in the water. Now he wears his goggles the entire lesson, dives for things under water, jumps off platforms and is learning all kinds of swim strokes. He still has a ways to go, but we are pleased that he is learning how to be safe in the water. That is what is most important for Cole. (see video below)
Cole is also making progress with some of his activities of daily living. He is now brushing his teeth twice a day with fluoride toothpaste. It has taken months and months of therapy at OT, but Cole is finally over his "Bear" non-fluoride toothpaste and he knows not to swallow the regular stuff. He is also doing a thorough job. I remember back a few years ago when it was nearly impossible to get him into the bathroom. Between teeth brushing and potty training, you would have thought our bathroom was a jail cell. He avoided it at all cost. Ahhh... progress!!!
I have also been able to take Cole to the YMCA and put him in Kids Stuff! This is something we used to be able to do as a family, but for the past 3 years Cole has refused to cooperate. We worked on it for weeks with his therapist from MAC and just last week I was able to take him by myself! To top that, I also took him to Target without Cole putting every toy in sight into our cart. Target was something I avoided with Cole at all cost. He did not understand that he could not buy everything he saw and that you could not ride bikes in the aisles. Thanks to Jen at MAC for helping us conquer that as well!
And to top all of this off, my Mom surprised me a few weeks ago with an amazing gift. At Cole's last benefit, the "team" went in and got me a gorgeous handmade silver Autism pendant. It is very special to me and something I truly cherish. A few years ago, my Grandmother gave me her wedding ring. It didn't fit and I'm not one to wear a lot of rings. My Mom had the idea for me to take the diamonds from the ring and put them onto the Autism pendant. My Grandma liked the idea and after a few months, I finally got around to asking our jeweler about it. My Mom went with me to meet him and I asked him to call me with an estimate. A few days went back and I get a message from my Dad asking me to stop by. I did so and my Mom brought a box for me to look at. I assumed it was something she purchased from the jeweler, so I was completely surprised when I opened it and saw my pendant with the diamonds from my Grandmother's ring!! It was beautiful. I am so thankful to have such a wonderful family and support system. Next to my wedding ring, the Autism pendant is the most precious piece of jewelry I own. It is sentimental for so many reasons and I'm so blessed to have been given it.
I hope you all enjoy this busy holiday season. We are all time-pressed but I want you to take time to enjoy your family and friends. Focus on what is most important. Spend quality time with the people you love and don't sweat the small stuff... chances are it will still be there tomorrow.
